Why we don't promote "why"?

 


Whether you are living in the most developed nation or underdeveloped nation, no school or family promotes why. There are many reasons of it. Some of them are:

1.       Ego is bigger: Many times, our teachers or science or loved ones don’t know answers of our questions but they are not ready to admit it because of their ego and that’s why they ignore our questions or make us quite. Ego is the biggest issue of everyone. It increases the communication gap between two people when we don’t give ground to why and that absence of why result in hollowness.

2.       Everyone likes fard: We all dream to be perfect in our lives. None of us is ready to accept their mistakes and express their vulnerability. This notion that we are perfect make other person shut our mouth and ignore our questions in the words of their yelling.

3.       Comfort zone is dearest to everyone: To find answer of our question requires effort and that effort is all about coming out of comfort zone. Comfort zone is not limited to physical comfort zone. It can be emotional comfort zone as well. if you are habitual of feeling sad than learning to live happy life is also coming out of your comfort zone. Some times, our questions are right but they make other people come out of their comfort zone and face the truth which they resist and that’s why they ignore our questions.

 We all have fears and bitter realities but facing them and realizing your mistake is the first step to move forward and why is the only way to take that first step. Therefore, appreciate it.

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